Venus Retrograde Magic: Spells & Rituals to Transform Love, Money, and Self-Worth

Yes, Venus retrograde—the astrological season where love gets weird, money gets messy, and exes rise from the depths like zombies looking for closure (or something more sinister). If you’ve ever found yourself scrolling through old texts at 2 AM, wondering if that DIY haircut was a mistake, congratulations—you’ve already experienced the charming chaos of Venus backpedaling through the sky.

But here’s the thing: Venus retrograde isn’t out to ruin your life. In fact, if you know how to work with it, this cycle can be a powerhouse for magical recalibration. Instead of trying to force attraction and abundance, Venus retrograde asks us to pause, reassess, and get brutally honest about what we truly value. So, put down that love spell for now—we’re about to navigate Venus retrograde like a pro.

Venus Retrograde 101: What You Need to Know

Venus, the planet of love, money, and beauty, normally operates like a social butterfly—flirting, charming, and making sure everything looks fabulous. But when she goes retrograde, she swaps her designer gown for a therapist’s chair, forcing us to examine where our relationships, finances, and self-worth have gone off track.

During this time:

• Relationships from the past may resurface (whether they should stay buried is another question).
• Financial mistakes or overlooked issues come to light (maybe don’t max out that credit card right now).
• Beauty routines and aesthetics feel “off” (this is not the time to go blonde on a whim, trust me).
• You’re called to reevaluate your values, self-worth, and emotional needs.

So how do you actually work with Venus retrograde? With magic, of course.

Magical Strategies for Venus Retrograde

1. Self-Love and Shadow Work Ritual

Venus retrograde is the ultimate time for self-love—not in the “take a bubble bath” way (though that’s nice too), but in the real, deep, sometimes uncomfortable kind of way. This is about facing your love patterns, healing self-worth issues, and embracing the parts of yourself you’ve ignored.

What you need:

• A green candle (because healing and self-love go hand in hand)
• Rose oil or jasmine incense
• A journal

How to do it:

1. Light your green candle, anointing it with rose oil if you have it.
2. Sit in front of a mirror and, instead of critiquing your pores, say three things you love about yourself (yes, out loud—Venus is listening).
3. Write down patterns you’ve noticed in your past relationships (romantic or otherwise). Are you giving too much? Chasing emotionally unavailable people? Ignoring red flags because they look like carnival lights?
4. Burn a piece of paper with a trait or belief you want to release, letting Venus take it off your hands.

2. The Ex Detox Spell

If you feel an ex creeping back into your energy (or your DMs), it might be time for a little energetic hygiene. This spell isn’t about revenge—it’s about closing doors that need to stay shut.

What you need:

• A green candle (such as my Venus — Astro Magic candle)
• A piece of paper
• A bowl of water with a little salt (for cleansing)

How to do it:

1. Write the name of the person you need to release (yes, even if they looked really good in their last post).
2. Light your green candle and visualize yourself reclaiming your energy.
3. Say: “I release what no longer serves me. My heart is free, my energy is my own.”
4. Drop the paper into the water and let it dissolve.
5. Pour the water outside to physically and spiritually release the connection.

3. Money Recalibration Ritual

Since Venus rules money, retrograde season is the perfect time to clean up your finances. This isn’t the moment to start risky financial ventures, but it is an excellent time to reassess spending habits, clear up debts, and attract stable abundance.

What you need:

• A green candle (hello, money magic!)
• Cinnamon or basil (herbs of prosperity)
• A dollar bill or coin

How to do it:

1. Anoint the green candle with cinnamon or basil, focusing on financial stability.
2. Hold your dollar bill or coin and say: “I call upon Venus to bless my wealth, to clear my debts, and to strengthen my financial foundation.”
3. Keep the bill in your wallet as a prosperity charm.
4. Reflect on what money really means to you—how you earn it, how you spend it, and how you can build a better relationship with it.

Venus Retrograde Do’s and Don’ts

✅ Do:

• Reconnect with past creative projects.
• Reassess your relationships and financial habits.
• Heal old wounds around love and self-worth.
• Use my Venus Astro Magic candle to enhance your reflection and manifestation work.

❌ Don’t:

• Start a new relationship (wait until Venus goes direct—trust me on this one).
• Make major financial investments or big purchases.
• Get a drastic new haircut, tattoo, or aesthetic overhaul (you’ll regret it post-retrograde).
• Text your ex. I know you’re tempted. Don’t do it.

Venus Retrograde and the Venus Astro Magic Candle

Let’s be real—Venus retrograde can feel like a messy emotional audit. But that doesn’t mean you have to stumble through it in the dark. My Venus Astro Magic candle is specifically designed to help you navigate this energy with clarity, grace, and a little Venusian charm. Whether you’re working on self-love, healing relationship wounds, or resetting your financial flow, lighting this candle during your rituals will enhance your magic and keep you connected to Venus’ blessings—even when she’s moonwalking through the sky.

Final Thoughts

Venus retrograde isn’t here to ruin your love life or make your bank account cry. It’s here to teach you—to show you where you’ve been settling, where you’ve been overgiving, and where you need to rewrite your script. Use this time wisely, and you’ll come out on the other side with a stronger sense of self-worth, healthier relationships, and a bank account that actually makes sense.

So light that green candle, take a deep breath, and remember: Venus may be retrograde, but your magic is always in forward motion.